Having connections help us in a myriad of ways; studies show that healthy relationships are essential to our well-being. Increased longevity, quicker healing, low blood pressure, better heart health, better immune system, improved physical health, higher pain tolerance, and longer life are just a few. There are many benefits of being single, you are free to do what you want on your terms, and there are stressors in a relationship that you wouldn’t have if you were single. Don’t get me wrong; being free to do as you please and avoiding relationship issues are desirable
benefits. However, a healthy relationship carries some significant advantages that are a bonus.
1. Happiness
Happiness is contagious, and when two people are in a relationship, there is plenty to go around. You always want the person you are in love with to be around you because those happy hormones are released. As a couple, you see things differently and have an extra pep in your step. No wonder people around you notice a difference.
2. Sense of Security
Not only do you feel happy, but you are more confident and secure. It inspires you to have a supportive partner and encourages you to work harder to reach your goals.
3. Less Stress
Stress is inevitable, but being with a supportive partner is a good stress reliever. They can cheer you up when you feel down; you can talk with them about your hard day at work, and even a walk or a coffee date can perk you up.
4. Get to know yourself more
Being single is an excellent way to get to know your likes and dislikes and be free to do what you want. However, you discover your true character, attitude, and social skills when you are with someone.
5. Relationships help you to be open-minded
It opens your mind to different perspectives and views that are different from yours. You have to respect your partner for a healthy relationship.
6. You are motivated to be and stay healthy
If you are planning a future with this person, you want to present the best version of yourself and be there for the long haul. You can set healthy goals together and learn that exercising your body is the best medicine for your relationship and health.
7. You will get truthful feedback
We look for truth and honesty when we need advice, and you can genuinely get it from your romantic partner. A mature relationship partner will tell you the truth and hold nothing back because they want you to be your best. Making you feel good makes them feel good too!
8.It helps you learn to be humble
Being in a relationship makes you evaluate your actions and realize the feelings of others and how your actions affect people. You will discover that being in a relationship teaches you how to be humble and admit to your mistakes. You are more likely to stay in a healthy relationship for a long time when you experience forgiveness and respect.
9. Your circle grows
There are many benefits to having more people in your circle, family, and friends. You grow your network of friends through his friends and acquaintances. It’s fun to become more social, opening you up to new experiences and career opportunities.
10. You become a better person and vice versa
You each mature when you grow together in a committed relationship, and it helps you become a better person! As a single person, you are not thinking about another person’s well-being. Yet, being in a committed relationship, your partner’s point of view expands your views of everything from emotional, physical, mental, and often spiritual.
11. There is someone there to check in on you
As a couple, not only is someone there to dote on you, but they are making sure you are ok. You are expecting that from your closest caregiver or your mom. Yet, in adulthood, the benefit of having someone care for you and ensure you’ve eaten, gotten home ok from a night out, or taken your medicine, is a bonus.
12. It helps you become understanding and patient
It can be challenging when you are with another person with different values and backgrounds than you. It will test your patience to understand their ways. Yet, if you are willing to hang in there and work things out, you can learn to understand and grow to love each other’s differences and strengthen your bond.
There is no I in Team
In a healthy, committed relationship, your future goals are made together with a lot of accountability to reach those goals. Planning is a team effort, and communication is necessary to make it work. Many factors go into plans falling through, but your bond becomes more vital when you are committed to taking steps to solidify them.
True Love
In the end, true love is what you learn throughout your mature, committed relationship. You are selfless, consider your partner’s needs, and love unconditionally, not expecting anything in return.
All relationships are not the same. It’s hard to find a partner that respects you, you trust, and for whom you have the same respect and admiration. Hold on to that relationship that excites you to be together because those are the most beneficial, making you a pleased human.